It all really comes down to this. And yet, you don’t necessarily make the choice. It just happens. One girl suddenly stands above them all. You realize she’s the one, and Bob’s your uncle. Congratulations.
The choice will happen sooner than you think. At least, if you are in earnest and communicating frequently, disqualifying girls, initiating conversations with new ones, eventually the right one will come up. The one who fits all your criteria. The one who, despite all your red flags and deal breakers, throws up no signs of a problem. You both like each other. And suddenly you’re both walking on air.
Shut down your dating site accounts. Announce to her that you will come visit her in the next month. Make preparations, and fly out to propose to your bride-to-be. And that’s how it’s done.
While we won’t help you make the choice, we will help you stay vigilant with the disqualifications and, once you make your choice, we’ll help you prepare and plan the visit.
You’ll also need to start preparing your home and life for your bride. She will be with you soon!